Add a CUDA 12.x pipeline and improve install_third_party_deps.ps1 (#17231)
### Description
1. Add a CUDA 12.x pipeline
2. Improve install_third_party_deps.ps1: avoid using Start-process.
Directly call the command instead.
### Motivation and Context
Since our official packages and all CI pipelines still use CUDA 11.x, we need extra pipelines to validate our source code level compatibility with CUDA 12.x. BTW for sure the prebuilt binaries in our release page are not compatible with CUDA 12.x. Do not report bugs for that.
AB#15152