replace unordered_map with InlinedHashMap in sequential_execution_plan.h (#12733)
* fix build break of GPU TensorRT CI pipeline in PE branch
* fix build break for linux GPU tensorRT CI
* fix error moving a temporary object prevents copy elision
* fix build errors
* fix the merge issue
* build break for DEBUG_NODE_INPUTS_OUTPUTS enabled
* resolve comments
* resolve comments
* something missing in local
* rename kernel_dump_context_ to dump_context_
* unordered_map to inlinedHashMap
* replace unordered_map and unordered_set with Inlinedxx for allocation_planner
* replace unordered_map and set wiht Inlinedxxx
* build break
* build break
* build break
* fix linux build error
* replace unordered_map with InlinedHashMap in sequential_execution_plan.h
Co-authored-by: Lei Cao <leca@microsoft.com@orttrainingdev9.d32nl1ml4oruzj4qz3bqlggovf.px.internal.cloudapp.net>