[CXX Lora] Prevent heap OOB from maliciously crafted Lora Adapters. (#27518)
### Description
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Detect and test mismatch between raw data size and declared data type
and shape of the lora adapter parameter.
### Motivation and Context
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Disallow maliciously crafted lora adapters leading to heap OOB.
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Co-authored-by: Copilot <175728472+Copilot@users.noreply.github.com>