Add XNNPack build on Linux ARM64 and improve Linux CPU (#22773)
### Description
1. Add XNNPack build on Linux ARM64
2. Build only one python wheel for PR request.
[AB#49763](https://aiinfra.visualstudio.com/6a833879-cd9b-44a4-a9de-adc2d818f13c/_workitems/edit/49763)
### Motivation and Context
Why I add xnnpack build on Linux ARM64 rather than Windows ARM64.
Becuase KleidiAI doesn't support Windows
```
IF(XNNPACK_TARGET_PROCESSOR STREQUAL "arm64" AND XNNPACK_ENABLE_ARM_I8MM AND NOT CMAKE_C_COMPILER_ID STREQUAL "MSVC")
IF (XNNPACK_ENABLE_KLEIDIAI)
MESSAGE(STATUS "Enabling KleidiAI for Arm64")
ENDIF()
ELSE()
SET(XNNPACK_ENABLE_KLEIDIAI OFF)
ENDIF()
```
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