Use fixed iOS simulator runtime version in mac.yml iphone_simulator job (#25794)
### Description
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Set iOS simulator runtime version to 18.5 in mac.yml iphone_simulator
job.
This job uses Xcode 16.4. According to this table, the corresponding
simulator SDK version is 18.5.
https://github.com/actions/runner-images/blob/da7977bf2699f44e70b7d3c3352dedb0da38db9c/images/macos/macos-15-arm64-Readme.md?plain=1#L181
### Motivation and Context
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Address intermittent CI build timeouts.