gh-38319: `build/pkgs/sage_numerical_backends_coin`, `sage_numerical_backends_cplex`, `sage_numerical_backends_gurobi`: Update to 10.4 (includes fix for Cython 3)
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These packages have been broken since our switch to Cython 3.
Switching to new releases:
- https://pypi.org/project/sage-numerical-backends-coin/10.4/
- [Changes](https://github.com/sagemath/sage-numerical-backends-
coin/commits/v10.4/)
- https://pypi.org/project/sage-numerical-backends-cplex/10.4/
- [Changes](https://github.com/sagemath/sage-numerical-backends-
cplex/commits/master/)
- Also fixes #37875.
- https://pypi.org/project/sage-numerical-backends-gurobi/10.4/
- Fixes #38268
Changes include `noexcept` fixes for Cython 3.
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URL: https://github.com/sagemath/sage/pull/38319
Reported by: Matthias Köppe
Reviewer(s): Kwankyu Lee