gh-38226: `build/pkgs/setuptools_scm`: Upgrade to 8.1.0, fix dependency typing_extensions, change some packages to `wheel`
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Currently several packages show a (non-fatal) build error like this:
```
[asttokens-2.4.1] [spkg-install] < INFO: pip is looking at multiple
versions of setuptools-scm to determine
[asttokens-2.4.1] [spkg-install] which version is compatible with
other requirements. This could take a
[asttokens-2.4.1] [spkg-install] while.
[asttokens-2.4.1] [spkg-install] < ERROR: Could not find a version that
satisfies the requirement typing-
[asttokens-2.4.1] [spkg-install] extensions (from setuptools-scm)
(from versions: none)
[asttokens-2.4.1] [spkg-install] < ERROR: No matching distribution found
for typing-extensions
```
The reason: `setuptools_scm` 8.0.4 (our current version) has an
unconditional dependency on `typing_extensions`, but our `spkg-
configure.m4` marks that as "not required" when using Python >= 3.11.
In this PR:
- We reduce several of these packages to (platform-independent) wheel
packages (and incidental updates) -- so that there is no build
dependency any more
- Two packages (`hatch_*`) that were build dependencies only are deleted
- We upgrade `setuptools_scm` to 8.1.0, which conditionalizes the
dependency on `typing_extensions` on `python_version < "3.10"`
https://github.com/pypa/setuptools_scm/blob/v8.1.0/pyproject.toml#L46
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URL: https://github.com/sagemath/sage/pull/38226
Reported by: Matthias Köppe
Reviewer(s): Kwankyu Lee
