gh-37041: update FriCAS to 1.3.10, allow building with sbcl
A routine update, with our patches becoming obsolete.
We also allow building FriCAS with sbcl:
We create a dummy package sbcl, and set up building FriCAS so that SBCL
>= 2.4.1 is the preferred compiler (if found).
This allows one to circumvent the ECL troubles on arm macOS - install
SBCL, done.
URL: https://github.com/sagemath/sage/pull/37041
Reported by: Dima Pasechnik
Reviewer(s): Martin Rubey
