[NPU] Move findCommandQueueGroupOrdinal to utils (#34960)
### Details:
- *Move findCommandQueueGroupOrdinal to utils*
- *...*
### Tickets:
- *N/A*
### AI Assistance:
- *AI assistance used: no / yes*
- *If yes, summarize how AI was used and what human validation was
performed (build/tests/manual checks).*
Signed-off-by: Bogdan Pereanu <bogdan.pereanu@intel.com>
