Fix building with conan, vcpkg (#30157)
### Details:
#### Conan fix:
When building with Conan, it creates some template expressions in
include directories for dependencies.
They look like this:
```
$<$<CONFIG:Release>:/home/username/.conan2/p/b/onetb872df69a92f94/p/include>
```
The code in question used to be removing only the trailing triangle
bracket '>' . That broke this template expression and made cmake treat
it as a regular string, failing configuration.
Adding a condition checking that both beginning and the end of the
string match before trimming a string fixes this error, but creates
another issue:
Turns out some template expressions contain multiple include dirs, see
debug output:
```
DEBUG: include_directories: $<BUILD_INTERFACE:/home/username/.conan2/p/b/openv9d048d5b6aa09/b/build/Release/src/plugins/intel_gpu/thirdparty/onednn_gpu_install/include;/home/username/.conan2/p/openv094e161e6063e/s/src/src/plugins/intel_gpu/thirdparty/onednn_gpu/src;/home/username/.conan2/p/openv094e161e6063e/s/src/src/plugins/intel_gpu/thirdparty/onednn_gpu/src/gpu/intel/jit/ngen;/home/username/.conan2/p/openv094e161e6063e/s/src/src/plugins/intel_gpu/thirdparty/onednn_gpu/third_party/ngen>
DEBUG: include_directory: $<BUILD_INTERFACE:/home/username/.conan2/p/b/openv9d048d5b6aa09/b/build/Release/src/plugins/intel_gpu/thirdparty/onednn_gpu_install/include
DEBUG: include_directory: /home/username/.conan2/p/openv094e161e6063e/s/src/src/plugins/intel_gpu/thirdparty/onednn_gpu/src
DEBUG: include_directory: /home/username/.conan2/p/openv094e161e6063e/s/src/src/plugins/intel_gpu/thirdparty/onednn_gpu/src/gpu/intel/jit/ngen
DEBUG: include_directory: /home/username/.conan2/p/openv094e161e6063e/s/src/src/plugins/intel_gpu/thirdparty/onednn_gpu/third_party/ngen>
```
They break into list items in such a way that the first part of template
expression appears in the first item of the list and the closing part of
the expression appears in the last item.
This can be fixed by checking and applying regular expression
substitution here in addition to (or maybe in place of) substitution
inside the loop.
#### Vcpkg fix:
Issue happens if `onednn` is installed in vcpkg environment as a package
and user attempts to build `openvino` package with `gpu` feature on.
The include directy with ambient onednn appear before the one that is
used in openvino and this breaks compilation.
There was a fix for this but seems that the issue was reintroduced with
some changes.
This new fix tries to put include path for the correct onednn in the
beginning of the include paths list to mitigate the issue.
### Related to:
- https://github.com/microsoft/vcpkg/pull/44954
- https://github.com/conan-io/conan-center-index/pull/27200
Co-authored-by: Ilya Lavrenov <ilya.lavrenov@intel.com>
