Use new sen/receive parameters in InteractionMessenger
Even that it looks like that the "expectedProcessingTime" is applied twice this is only partially true. Our send waits until an ack is received. If the ack is sent directly then we just wait the additional time on reading next message. If the ack is send piggybacked on response the "nextmessage" call resolvs immediately because response is already there.
Only special cases will wait twice, but they should be fine and go more into the old 60s from before, but limited.
