pass acc test if ref is NaN (#129996)
Summary:
I'm debugging the accuracy failure for training vision_maskrcnn.
Unfortunately I could not succeed to run it locally (I've check pined commits for torchbenchmars/torchvision are correct, and reinstalled torchbenchmark for mask_rcnn). I get this error:
```
eager run fail: AssertionError: targets should not be none when in training mode
```
(Command: time python benchmarks/dynamo/torchbench.py --backend inductor --amp --performance --training --only vision_maskrcnn )
But look at the log from the dashboard
```
E0623 19:17:59.085000 140114670171328 torch/_dynamo/utils.py:1468] RMSE (res-fp64): nan, (ref-fp64): nan and shape=torch.Size([1024, 256, 1, 1]). res.dtype: torch.float32, multiplier: 3.000000, tol: 0.001000
```
We can see both the reference number and the pt2 number are NaN. I change torch._dynamo.utils.same to return true if both RMSE values are NaN.
X-link: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/129996
Approved by: https://github.com/jansel
Reviewed By: kit1980
Differential Revision: D59413503
Pulled By: shunting314
fbshipit-source-id: b8b56c76aa0c4616fd5eb41a1e420c9007f26bb5
