add USER_ERROR graph break hint to some dynamic shapes errors, chain underlying exceptions (#172694)
Summary:
This is to improve error messages of Dynamo FX node failures, in particular:
- we suggest the user to run their code in eager to see if the error occurs
- we chain exceptions wherever we were missing them in torch/_dynamo/utils.py
X-link: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/172694
Approved by: https://github.com/pianpwk
Reviewed By: izaitsevfb
Differential Revision: D92237542
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