enable torch._functorch.config.guess_tangent_strides_as_outputs for OSS by default
Summary:
X-link: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/173668
Addresses issue: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/173313
cc voznesenskym penguinwu EikanWang jgong5 Guobing-Chen XiaobingSuper zhuhaozhe blzheng wenzhe-nrv jiayisunx ipiszy kadeng muchulee8 amjames chauhang aakhundov coconutruben jataylo Lucaskabela
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Reviewed By: zou3519
Differential Revision: D96456766
Pulled By: IvanKobzarev
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