Replace XLA_COUNTER with TORCH_LAZY_COUNTER (#4208)
* Add a test case
* Replace some XLA_COUNTER with TORCH_LAZY_COUNTER
* Apply even more TORCH_LAZY_COUNTER
* Add a comment
* Fix short_metrics
* fix _xla_counter_names
* fix _xla_counter_value
* fix _clear_xla_counters
* fix linters
* Fix test
* fix a typo
* Remove .torch_pin
