[LTC] Reuse more upstream LazyGraphExecutor data structures (#4312)
Summary:
This patch reuses more upstream LazyGraphExecutor data structures, including:
1. TlsData.
2. DeviceLocker.
3. DeviceLockerArena.
4. DataCacheArena.
And also reuses the following methods:
1. DeviceBarrier().
2. GetDeviceData().
3. IncTrimCounter().
P.S. It needs pytorch/pytorch#90598 to work. And it tries to re-land #4303.
Test Plan:
CI.
