[Compiled Autograd] Introduce BackwardState capture (#120382)
This adds support for backwards hooks that are *both*:
1) Interior to the graph; and
2) Dynamically generated (e.g. lambdas)
We do this by creating a BackwardState object that is used to register the hooks in the forward, then populated by dynamo *after* the forwards runs.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/120382
Approved by: https://github.com/xmfan
