Fix breakpad build and add to more images (#59236)
Summary:
This PR
* adds the breakpad build to most of the remaining docker images (except the mobile + slim ones)
* pins to a [fork of breakpad](https://github.com/google/breakpad/compare/master...driazati:master?expand=1) to enable dasiy chaining on signal handlers
* renames the API to be nicer
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/59236
Reviewed By: malfet
Differential Revision: D28792511
Pulled By: driazati
fbshipit-source-id: 83723e74b7f0a00e1695210ac2620a0c91ab4bf2
