adds data_ptr checks to in-place OpInfo variant tests and out OpInfo tests (#55527)
Summary:
Fixes https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/55088.
Unfortunately, this test wouldn't have caught index_add_ breakage (because index_add_ breakage would appear only in a particular type promotion situation).
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/55527
Reviewed By: mruberry
Differential Revision: D27671138
Pulled By: ngimel
fbshipit-source-id: b52411f5a6d81098b706dfda4d0c9a16716414d7
