Improve compiler detection on MacOS (#121406)
By relying on `is_apple_clang` helper function rather than on compiler name (as `gcc` is clang on MacOS):
```
% which gcc; gcc -v
/usr/bin/gcc
Apple clang version 15.0.0 (clang-1500.3.9.4)
Target: arm64-apple-darwin23.3.0
Thread model: posix
InstalledDir: /Applications/Xcode.app/Contents/Developer/Toolchains/XcodeDefault.xctoolchain/usr/bin
```
But
```
% /opt/homebrew/bin/gcc-13 -v
Using built-in specs.
COLLECT_GCC=/opt/homebrew/bin/gcc-13
COLLECT_LTO_WRAPPER=/opt/homebrew/Cellar/gcc/13.2.0/bin/../libexec/gcc/aarch64-apple-darwin23/13/lto-wrapper
Target: aarch64-apple-darwin23
Configured with: ../configure --prefix=/opt/homebrew/opt/gcc --libdir=/opt/homebrew/opt/gcc/lib/gcc/current --disable-nls --enable-checking=release --with-gcc-major-version-only --enable-languages=c,c++,objc,obj-c++,fortran --program-suffix=-13 --with-gmp=/opt/homebrew/opt/gmp --with-mpfr=/opt/homebrew/opt/mpfr --with-mpc=/opt/homebrew/opt/libmpc --with-isl=/opt/homebrew/opt/isl --with-zstd=/opt/homebrew/opt/zstd --with-pkgversion='Homebrew GCC 13.2.0' --with-bugurl=https://github.com/Homebrew/homebrew-core/issues --with-system-zlib --build=aarch64-apple-darwin23 --with-sysroot=/Library/Developer/CommandLineTools/SDKs/MacOSX14.sdk
Thread model: posix
Supported LTO compression algorithms: zlib zstd
gcc version 13.2.0 (Homebrew GCC 13.2.0)
```
Co-authored-by: Nikita Shulga <2453524+malfet@users.noreply.github.com>
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/121406
Approved by: https://github.com/malfet, https://github.com/jansel
