[dtensor][3/n] use dedicated TensorMeta instead of the fx one (#108261)
This PR switches the usage of fx's shape prop TensorMetadata to
dtensor's own dedicated defined TensorMeta, this is because DTensor
only cares three fields: shape/stride/dtype, all other fields are not
necessary and can be inferred from local_tensor directly. This would
help significantly simplify how we deal with the tensor metadata by not
caring other fields.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/108261
Approved by: https://github.com/fduwjj
ghstack dependencies: #107306
