[package] track storages across lifetime of PackageExporter (#59735)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/59735
1. Fixes ABA storage identity problem during serialization for `torch.package` by keeping reference of serialized storages through lifetime of `PackageExporter` to prevent reuse of memory address. Achieved by extending logic used in solution to mobile's same issue.
2. Adds determinism to naming scheme of serialized storages in export code paths which utilize `tensor_cdata_naming_scheme`(introduced 2nd mapping in `StorageContext`, now maps `storage cdata ptr` -> `unique id`, `unique id` -> `c10::Storage`)
3. Additionally uses presence of a storage in the `StorageContext` instance as marker for if a storage has been serialized or not, removing the need to scan the `PythonStreamWriter` for presence of the storage's serialization file
Test Plan: Imported from OSS
Reviewed By: suo
Differential Revision: D29075276
Pulled By: Lilyjjo
fbshipit-source-id: 15a5c30b1de99c5bd7079388f2db9b6ece2eca12
