[Lint] Update clang-tidy to 11.1.0 (#91709)
Also, add option to download to distinguish between universal/i386 only
and separate i386 and arm binaries for MacOS
Follow up for https://github.com/pytorch/test-infra/pull/1354
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/91709
Approved by: https://github.com/huydhn