Make NestedTensor compilable with eager backend (#109171)
In this PR:
- Adds support for strides for jagged tensor (design doc for this coming soon)
- NestedTensor skips automatic dynamic
- Make use of @bdhirsh's subclass fakification logic by adding the __tensor_{un,}flatten__ functions.
- Additional logic for fakification: since existing subclass fakification logic does not handle the case where the outer tensor has an additional dimension. We insert one-off logic to (1) insert an extra SingletonSymInt onto the fakified NestedTensor. (2) make sure we call track_symint on both the sizes on the inner and outer tensor during guard creation.
Remaining things that are weird:
- Still need to skip some logic in meta utils for some reason (I was going to write this up more, but decided not to since we're not able to do this anyway for a immediate reason: we cannot arbitrarily compare singleton ints. For now I'm just following Brian's advise from [here](https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/109171#discussion_r1328137070) )
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/109171
Approved by: https://github.com/ezyang, https://github.com/bdhirsh
