[Reland][3/N] Add -Wdeprecated and related fixes (#110518)
Fixes the string_view errors and reland the work. The previous changes in torch/csrc/utils/invalid_arguments.cpp were too aggressive and not tested thoroughly. They are discarded.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/110518
Approved by: https://github.com/ezyang
