[reland][inductor] Adjust dynamic SMEM limit when above default in AOT (#107814)
Summary:
This relands #107601, which was reverted due to the new test failing in the internal CI. Here we skip the new test (as well as the existing tests in `test_aot_inductor.py`, as those are also failing in the internal CI).
Test Plan:
```
$ python test/inductor/test_aot_inductor.py
...
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Ran 5 tests in 87.309s
OK
```
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Differential Revision: [D48623171](https://our.internmc.facebook.com/intern/diff/D48623171)
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/107814
Approved by: https://github.com/eellison
