[ONNX] Add dim_param support in export with onnx shape inference (#44920) (#45755)
Summary:
* Support propagating `dim_param` in ONNX by encoding as `ShapeSymbol` in `SymbolicShape` of outputs. If export is called with `dynamic_axes` provided, shape inference will start with these axes set as dynamic.
* Add new test file `test_pytorch_onnx_shape_inference.py`, reusing all test cases from `test_pytorch_onnx_onnxruntime.py`, but focus on validating shape for all nodes in graph. Currently this is not enabled in the CI, since there are still quite some existing issues and corner cases to fix. The test is default to run only at opset 12.
* Bug fixes, such as div, _len, and peephole.cpp passes for PackPadded, and LogSoftmaxCrossEntropy.
* This PR depends on existing PR such as 44332.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/44920
Reviewed By: eellison
Differential Revision: D23958398
Pulled By: bzinodev
fbshipit-source-id: 00479d9bd19c867d526769a15ba97ec16d56e51d
