[reland] Fix flaky test_nccl_timeout (#68544)
Summary:
Fixes https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/66882
In addition to changes in https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/68403, add one more error check that can be raised when a collective times out
cc pietern mrshenli pritamdamania87 zhaojuanmao satgera rohan-varma gqchen aazzolini osalpekar jiayisuse SciPioneer H-Huang
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/68544
Reviewed By: albanD
Differential Revision: D32508706
Pulled By: rohan-varma
fbshipit-source-id: 7d41b91f547d4ad763c44cd11e7b9914b452b617
