[CLANGTIDY] Enable clang-tidy in torch/csrc/xpu (#120616)
# Motivation
refer to [#118504](https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/118504), enabling clang-tidy in `torch/csrc/xpu`.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/120616
Approved by: https://github.com/albanD
