Update Windows builders to latest VS2019 (#44746)
Summary:
Restore https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/44706, which should workaround VC compiler crash, which was reverted by https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/41977
Update configs to use ":stable" Windows images
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/44746
Reviewed By: walterddr
Differential Revision: D23793682
Pulled By: malfet
fbshipit-source-id: bfdc36c35b920f58798a18c15642ec7efc68f00e
