[ROCm] utilize PUBLIC vs PRIVATE linking to avoid incorrect dependencies (#54727)
Summary:
Fixes the build of projects that depend on torch, such as torchaudio. Otherwise torchaudio will complain that gloo_hip is missing.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/54727
Reviewed By: H-Huang
Differential Revision: D27361513
Pulled By: ezyang
fbshipit-source-id: 714cc2db23e7adf3e89303e941b78c27625b9460
