[JIT] Enchance training ops check to be more inclusive and account for possible pybind exceptions (#81782)
- Modified is_mutable python binding to accept a string instead of a string_view for better python compatibility.
- Modified argument value adding python bindings to deal with input/self edge case due to inconsistencies in how the first variable is named.
- Modified _is_alias_of and created _contains_alias_of python bindings to accurately find out if values are aliasing, or contain an alias.
- Fixed is_mutable implementation to cover all ops that have mutable optional arguments. (These are all the ops that have the optional arguments 'running_mean' and 'running_var' along with either 'train', 'training' or 'use_input_stats.'
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/81782
Approved by: https://github.com/davidberard98
