Add a mode to rerun all disabled tests (without running anything else) (#88646)
Rerun all disabled test to gather their latest result so that we can close disabled tickets automatically. When running under this mode (RERUN_DISABLED_TESTS=true), only disabled tests are run while the rest are skipped `<skipped message="Test is enabled but --rerun-disabled-tests verification mode is set, so only disabled tests are run" type="skip"/>`
The logic is roughly as follows, the test runs multiple times (n=50)
* If the disabled test passes, and it's flaky, do nothing because it's still flaky. In the test report, we'll see the test passes with the following skipped message:
```
<testcase classname="TestMultiprocessing" file="test_multiprocessing.py" line="357" name="test_fs" time="0.000" timestamp="0001-01-01T00:00:00">
<skipped message="{"flaky": True, "num_red": 4, "num_green": 0, "max_num_retries": 3, "rerun_disabled_test": true}" type="skip"/>
</testcase>
```
* If the disabled test passes every single time, and it is not flaky anymore, mark it so that it can be closed later. We will see the test runs and passes, i.e.
```
<testcase classname="TestCommonCUDA" name="test_out_warning_linalg_lu_factor_cuda" time="0.170" file="test_ops.py" />
```
* If the disabled test fails after all retries, this is also expected. So only report this but don't fail the job (because we don't care about red signals here), we'll see the test is skipped (without the `flaky` field), i.e.
```
<testcase classname="TestMultiprocessing" file="test_multiprocessing.py" line="357" name="test_fs" time="0.000" timestamp="0001-01-01T00:00:00">
<skipped message="{"num_red": 4, "num_green": 0, "max_num_retries": 3, "rerun_disabled_test": true}" type="skip"/>
</testcase>
```
This runs at the same schedule as `mem_leak_check` (daily). The change to update test stats, and (potentially) grouping on HUD will come in separated PRs.
### Testing
* pull https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/actions/runs/3447434434
* trunk https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/actions/runs/3447434928
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/88646
Approved by: https://github.com/clee2000