Init CUDA instead of faking memory stats (#121698)
This is very confusing when checking for memory usage and allocations are only happening using C API. We should change it to a warning/error or just init cuda. Codepaths that run on non-CUDA environments shouldn't call into these functions in the first place
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/121698
Approved by: https://github.com/jansel
