Extend _save_for_mobile and _load_for_mobile to support flatbuffer format; Default format is pickle + Change buck targets to support `only pickle` and `pickle + flatbuffer` for migration (#74209)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/74209
Extending `_save_for_mobile` and `_load_for_mobile` to support faltbuffer format with additional optional argument which is set to pick pickle by default.
Adding new binary target with suffix `_pickle_and_flatbuffer` to help migration.
Size test in D34909502 shows the size has regressed by ~40K but after removing pickle and comparing lite_predictors we have ~120K size measure that we will achieve when deprecating pickle and moving to flatbuffer
**BEFORE:**
```lang=mermaid
graph TD;
torch_core-->torch_mobile_deserialize;
torch_mobile_core-->torch_mobile_deserialize;
jit_module_saving-->torch_core;
jit_module_saving-->torch_mobile_core;
torch_mobile_deserialize-->caffe2_serialize;
torch_mobile_deserialize-->torch_mobile_module;
caffe2_serialize-->miniz;
flatbuffer_loader-->mobile_bytecode;
flatbuffer_serializer-->mobile_bytecode;
mobile_bytecode-->flatbuffer_2.0;
flatbuffer_loader-->torch_mobile_module;
flatbuffer_serializer-->torch_mobile_module;
```
**AFTER:**
```lang=mermaid
graph TD;
torch_core-->torch_mobile_deserialize;
torch_mobile_core-->torch_mobile_deserialize;
jit_module_saving-->torch_core;
jit_module_saving-->torch_mobile_core;
torch_mobile_deserialize-->caffe2_serialize;
torch_mobile_deserialize-->torch_mobile_module;
caffe2_serialize-->miniz;
flatbuffer_loader-->mobile_bytecode;
flatbuffer_serializer-->mobile_bytecode;
mobile_bytecode-->flatbuffer_2.0;
torch_mobile_deserialize_pickle_and_flatbuffer-->|new| flatbuffer_loader;
torch_mobile_deserialize_pickle_and_flatbuffer-->|new| torch_mobile_deserialize;
torch_mobile_core_pickle_and_flatbuffer-->|new| torch_mobile_deserialize_pickle_and_flatbuffer;
torch_core_pickle_and_flatbuffer-->|new| torch_mobile_deserialize_pickle_and_flatbuffer;
jit_module_saving_pickle_and_flatbuffer-->|new| torch_core_pickle_and_flatbuffer;
jit_module_saving_pickle_and_flatbuffer-->|new| torch_mobile_core_pickle_and_flatbuffer;
flatbuffer_serializer-->torch_mobile_module;
jit_module_saving_pickle_and_flatbuffer-->|new|jit_module_saving;
jit_module_saving_pickle_and_flatbuffer-->|new|flatbuffer_serializer;
flatbuffer_loader-->torch_mobile_module;
```
ghstack-source-id: 151744258
Test Plan:
Similar Build Deps Dags
```
[pavithran@devvm5216.vll0 /data/users/pavithran/fbsource] buck query 'allpaths(//xplat/caffe2:torch_mobile_all_ops_pickle_and_flatbuffer, //xplat/caffe2:torch_mobile_deserialize_pickle_and_flatbuffer)' --output-format dot-compact | pastry
P486770901: https://www.internalfb.com/intern/paste/P486770901/
[pavithran@devvm5216.vll0 /data/users/pavithran/fbsource] buck query 'allpaths(//xplat/caffe2:torch_mobile_all_ops, //xplat/caffe2:torch_mobile_deserialize)' --output-format dot-compact | pastry
P486771278: https://www.internalfb.com/intern/paste/P486771278/
```
pickle_and_flatbuffer: https://www.internalfb.com/intern/dgw/graph/?build_id=P486770901
pickle: https://www.internalfb.com/intern/dgw/graph/?build_id=P486771278
Reviewed By: iseeyuan
Differential Revision: D34805092
fbshipit-source-id: 57f3fc81d68fce941a050c35bd8e6f05951183b3
(cherry picked from commit 671ae4ed29e65b86ffe507a503548d3e86ab0ea4)