[android][ci] Fix CI packaging headers to aar (#40442)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/40442
Problem:
Nightly builds do not include libtorch headers as local build.
The reason is that on docker images path is different than local path when building with `scripts/build_pytorch_android.sh`
Solution:
Introducing gradle property to be able to specify it and add its specification to gradle build job and snapshots publishing job which run on the same docker image.
Test:
ci-all jobs check https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/40443
checking that gradle build will result with headers inside aar
Test Plan: Imported from OSS
Differential Revision: D22190955
Pulled By: IvanKobzarev
fbshipit-source-id: 9379458d8ab024ee991ca205a573c21d649e5f8a
