[Profiler][1/N] add profiler support for custom device. (#101554)
1. `torch.autograd.profiler` interface parameters changed. (use `self.use_device` instead of `self.use_cuda` facilitates access by other devices and integrate it in subsequent pr)
2. Modify `ProfilerEventStub`(aka `std::shared_ptr<CUevent_st>`) to `ProfilerVoidEventStub`(aka `std::shared_ptr<void>`) so that `ProfilerStubs` can be inherited by any `{device}Methods`.
In addition, `cuda_event_start_` is renamed to `device_event_start_` , cuda and other devices can use this event pointer if needed.
4. custom device support using legacy profiling(add `ProfilerState::KINETO_PRIVATEUSE1_FALLBACK` option)
5. add `privateuse1Stubs` register
(parse results and test cases are added in subsequent pr)
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/101554
Approved by: https://github.com/aaronenyeshi
