[Reusable workflows] Windows - Move codegened binary builds to reusable workflows (#81442)
Refactor the codgen used to generate windows binary builds into reusable workflows
This PR extracts out what's needed for binary builds & tests for windows. https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/81447 extracts out the steps for MacOS workflows as well
Together, these two (combined with https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/81044) fix https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/74480
### Testing
Ran CI with `ciflow/trunk`, `ciflow/binaries`, `ciflow/binaries_conda`, and `ciflow/binaries_wheel` labels
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/81442
Approved by: https://github.com/malfet
