add qscheme check for quantization observer (#80126)
Motivation: each quantization observer only supports a limit qschemes, we need to do this check at the initiation step, rather than at the running step, such as MinMaxObserver with set qscheme with **torch.per_channel_affine**, there will have a runtime error at the running the calibration step:
```
AttributeError: 'MinMaxObserver' object has no attribute 'ch_axis'
```
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/80126
Approved by: https://github.com/jerryzh168
