Integrate swap_tensors into nn.Module.load_state_dict (#117913)
Added a `torch.Tensor` method that defines how to transform `other`, a value in the state dictionary, to be loaded into `self`, a param/buffer in an `nn.Module` before swapping via `torch.utils.swap_tensors`
* `param.module_load(sd[key])`
This method can be overridden using `__torch_function__`.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/117913
Approved by: https://github.com/albanD
