Set shuffle to DataPipes with set_shuffle API (#83741)
This PR requires PR is landed: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/83202
## changes
- For `apply_shuffle_setting` and `apply_shuffle_seed`, it makes sure it will apply shuffle setting to each of DataPipe that contains a method called `set_shuffle` or `set_seed`.
- Change the API from `apply_shuffle_seed` to `apply_random_seed`.
- Fix a bug that `apply_shuffle_seed` only accepts DataPipe that is hashable. After the PR, this function uses `id` to prevent seeding the same DataPipe multiple times per epoch.
- Fix another bug from `shuffler` that `reset` with `_enable=False` would also reset `_seed`.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/83741
Approved by: https://github.com/NivekT
