[DDP Communication Hook] Update get_tensor and set_tensor to be cleaner naming conventions (buffer() and set_buffer()) (#62662)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/62662
Replaced the methods set_tensor(.) and get_tensor() in the python exposed API from the C++ logic with buffer() and set_buffer(.) to be a cleaner interface.
Reviewed By: SciPioneer
Differential Revision: D30012869
fbshipit-source-id: bd8efab583dd89c96f9aeb3dd48a12073f0b1482
