Revert "Updates NCCL to 2.17.1 (#97407)"
This reverts commit b113a09ef90decbc703722bfdc2064fc5eb54a19.
Reverted https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/97407 on behalf of https://github.com/clee2000 due to looks like it broke inductor distributed tests https://hud.pytorch.org/pytorch/pytorch/commit/b113a09ef90decbc703722bfdc2064fc5eb54a19#12344853677
