[Profiler] Don't raise SOFT_ASSERT in debug builds. (#89240)
Enough people are hitting this issue that we need to turn off hard failures until the fire rate is zero in steady state. (via scuba logging.)
Differential Revision: [D41382914](https://our.internmc.facebook.com/intern/diff/D41382914/)
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/89240
Approved by: https://github.com/aaronenyeshi
