Flip clip_grad_norm default for error_if_nonfinite to false (#55169)
Summary:
Non-backwards-compatible change introduced in https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/53843 is tripping up a lot of code. Better to set it to False initially and then potentially flip to True in the later version to give people time to adapt.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/55169
Reviewed By: mruberry
Differential Revision: D27511150
Pulled By: jbschlosser
fbshipit-source-id: 1ac018557c0900b31995c29f04aea060a27bc525
