Revert D31082208: Use shared CUPTI by default
Test Plan: revert-hammer
Differential Revision:
D31082208 (https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/commit/8b0eae5aa86dac184486d0d9481fff8a25aa7853)
Original commit changeset: 14f66af92084
fbshipit-source-id: 0faff00832b7f79d476fd1f9f505142a548a76db
