use pytree to allow any input format for cuda graph (#90941)
Summary:
1. use pytree to allow any input format for make_graphed_callables
2. add allow_unused_input argument for make_graphed_callables
Test Plan: buck2 test mode/dev-nosan //caffe2/test:cuda -- --print-passing-details
Differential Revision: D42077976
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/90941
Approved by: https://github.com/ngimel
