[CI] Fix sccaching of nvcc builds (#106811)
In cmake-3.26 or newer, `--options-file` is used, which renders nvcc outputs uncacheable by `sccache`, which were enable for CUDA-11 or newer builds by default by https://github.com/Kitware/CMake/commit/6377a43814bb6f3087b731644bb61302a3fc3c55
Fix it by disabling RESPONSE_FILE use for CUDA compilation.
Test Plan: Check that `multiple input files` stats in `PyTorch Build Statistics` is down to 13 files again, see https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/actions/runs/5801865789/job/15727069855?pr=106811#step:10:42423
Fixes https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/issues/105004
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/106811
Approved by: https://github.com/seemethere
