Refactor normalize passes to use @register_graph_pattern (#101764)
Cleans up normalize passes by using register_graph_pattern decorator
Differential Revision: [D45973543](https://our.internmc.facebook.com/intern/diff/D45973543/)
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Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/101764
Approved by: https://github.com/jansel
