Use official NVML Python bindings (#93925)
Use the official NVML Python binding package [`nvidia-ml-py`](https://pypi.org/project/nvidia-ml-py), which is maintained by the NVIDIA NVML team.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/93925
Approved by: https://github.com/huydhn, https://github.com/ZainRizvi, https://github.com/ptrblck
